Demi Moore on losing herself in 3 marriages: ‘I had changed’ to ‘fit what I thought somebody else wanted’!!! – Demi Moore learned an important lesson in self-love from her failed marriages to Ashton Kutcher, Bruce Willis and Freddy Moore. During an appearance on SiriusXM’s the Jess Cagle Show, the 57-year-old actress opened up about how that helped her heal from her divorces.
“I think it’s a process of, you know, not to sound cliché, but it’s really a process of learning to love yourself,” Moore shared. “Accepting who you are just as you are. For me, I had changed myself so many times over and over to fit what I thought somebody else wanted. It’s that idea that we’re kind of conditioned to work towards being desired, but we’re not supposed to have desires of our own.”
The theme of being in a marriage and losing yourself is something Moore talked about in her best-selling memoir Inside Out. The Ghost star wed musician Freddy Moore in 1981, but filed for divorce three years later. In the book, she admitted to being unfaithful the night before their marriage.
“Why didn’t I go and see the man I was committing to spend the rest of my life with to express my doubts? Because I couldn’t face the fact that I was getting married to distract myself from grieving the death of my father,” she wrote. “Because I felt there was no room to question what I’d already put in motion. I couldn’t get out of the marriage, but I could sabotage it.”
Moore and Willis, who share three daughters, were married for 13 years before splitting in 2000. She wrote about being “very proud” of how they handled their breakup.
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Demi Moore on losing herself in 3 marriages! Demi Moore on losing herself in 3 marriages